When bathing Tee:
Mummy – dumps her in the tub with bubbles and play/bath her or let her play by herself and Mummy brings laptop to bathroom :-). Takes her out and dries her. She clothes herself. Leaves water there for Daddy to clean up.
Daddy – gently puts her in the tub with bubbles and play/bath her. Takes her out, dries and cloth her. Then cleans bath tub spotless.
When brushing Tee’s teeth:
Mummy – brushes all molars for 5 seconds each, then the insides and outsides, then the front teeth top and bottom, then insides and outsides. Spit, gargle. Brush tongue. Gargle. Spit. Done.
Daddy – God knows what he does but screams from bathroom are common, “No! Too hard! Brush Gently! NO!!” followed by “if you stop moving around, then it won’t be painful, alright!”
When feeding Tee:
Mummy – prepares food on high chair, belts her up and says “Eat!”. Tee obediently eats…..if she rejects food, Mummy still makes her eat, unless Mummy knows she is full from something else.
Daddy – 2 scenarios: either he follows her around feeding her whilst she plays or he will ask her if she wants to eat. If she says no, then he will put food away. Meaning she can go without food if she chooses to say no. Men!
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Hehehe, sounds very familiar in the Jayaraj’s household. I suppose that’s bcause we mum’s have 100 & 1 things to do while the daddies have all the time to dot on the kids .