As I approach my 50s, I am becoming more and more comfortable in my own skin. I have truly loved my journey thus far despite all the pitfalls which has made it all the more colourful and interesting. I used to think why me when the going got tough but today, I am grateful. I am grateful that God has shown me the way.
Do you know how when you are out and about and suddenly you see an old friend from the corner of your eye and they immediately pretend to avoid you? To me, people who have nothing to hide, have nothing to hide. They would be brave to meet you and happy to hold a conversation. The fact that they have to avoid you is telling but it is OK. We should never be desperate for anyone to come say hello. I am just fascinated how women evolve with all their insecurities and idiosyncrasies.
I also find that usually when these seemingly friendly people start avoiding you, it is because they are guilty of something. Or jealous. If you are liked by everyone else and suddenly this one starts acting funny, something is up. But if you find everyone staying away from you, then you should ask a real friend what exactly it is about you that is pushing others away.
For me personally, I am a hard nut to crack. Once someone has betrayed me, it is unlikely they would ever be allowed into my inner circle without a lot of grovelling. Funny how one friend asked me if I expected this girl to grovel for my friendship. Actually I do! I have one of the highest loyalty meters on this planet! Anyone who can penetrate my inner circle is genius with heart because it takes more than 7 years before you could even get a glimpse.
I have definitely arrived home.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
