Losing my head

Anyone seen it? Because I lost it yesterday. After a stressful trip to the hospital and a continuously stressful day, what I did not need was to discover that T2 did not have any spare clothes to wear to sleep and I did not have any breast pads for the night.

Then I remembered that it has been 3 days since she made me my cinnamon tea (I’ve requested for it to be made daily) and she took the initiative to bake extra bread in all sorts of shapes (something which I never asked her to do and to me is just a bloody waste of my ingredients as how are we supposed to eat SO MUCH BREAD and mind you, it was rock hard and not edible. I would appreciate it if she saved her little experiments for herself or actually ask me first if she is allowed to play play doe with my ingredients). And mind you, I have a list of 15 other things that were supposed to be done but were not done.

Naturally, I was infuriated because I felt that I was being taken for a ride. My helper, she has a really easy job. Half the time we are out and she doesn’t have to cook for us. This gives her so much time to get her job done perfectly. She already has a handphone (to me, that is me allowing her freedom) and still slips are made. She has a good life with us at home, what more with us not being home?! She has been with us for exactly 3 months now. Only 3 months and I’m already seeing signs? That is too soon!!!

I really have good intentions for her but if she cannot do her job well, I’m going to come down hard. She claims she has too little to do, then she slacks. What the hell is all this about??? I am generally nice but please don’t take me for a ride.

I’ve told her that if she doesn’t pull up her socks, I will have to start bringing her out with me. I’d much rather her help me with taking Tee to the toilet at the hospital instead of me suffering than she shaking legs at home. Mind you, she has so much time to go on MY TREADMILL everyday. Err…..yeah, I know…..my helper uses my treadmill more than me and my husband combined and the Hubs asks why she seems to have a better life than us? Slap me. I really don’t mind her using it as I am all for having a fit helper but enough already!

DO NOT TAKE ME FOR GRANTED!!!

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8 thoughts on “Losing my head

  1. Whoa…..helper living better life?? Think you should take her out with you more often….you’ll have more hand to help with carrying baby and diaper bags, and also handling Tee. Don’t let her have too good a life! You pay her to work, not to enjoy her life.

  2. I think you’ve loosened the reins too much too soon! Give her priviledges one at a time, with time and performance. And do not turn a blind eye. be firm now, before she gets really conceited. Whenever she does something that you do not like, tell her. This is one thing that you cannot keep quiet about. it will stress you out and not be good for your well being.

    By the way, at night, when there’s no breast pad, a towel hanky will work just as well.

  3. wei… why did you let her use your ‘stuff’ ? Make it clear some stuff are yours and not hers. Treadmills, oven, cake mixer, all MINE !! Do not touch wor.. I think you are not setting expectations right n better do something fast. Mine was sent back to agency after 3 months to ‘rewind’ and ‘restart’ !

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