Don’t you think so? More often than not anyway. After all, who is it that the child spends the most time with? Who do they emulate, imitate and follow? Who do they learn from?
When a child is born, he is born pure, like a single white clean nucleus. As he grows, the sounds, the sights, the conditioning, the environment…….all start adding stains onto that white nucleus. It is great when those stains are clean, white additional stains, neatly attached to the nucleus; but when the stains are grey or black, and worse shapeless, the nucleus eventually becomes cancerous.
An owner of a school once told me, she has some really horrible kids at her school and there’s no controlling their rudeness, or lack of respect. But when she finally got to meet their parents, she knew why. Stroppy parenting produces stroppy kids and in turn, more stroppy adults.
Period.
Make more time for your kids today! Go spend at least an hour doing something of quality, be it playing fire-engine saving a fire, talking about ideas at school or just naming everything that starts with B for Beautiful………..
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Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.


And that is precisely why young children are not to blame for their behaviour. You know where to look to now.
agree!
I believe children are a reflection of their primary carers. I know many children in Msia who are looked after by their nannys or babysitter or grandparents during the week (day and night) and only spend two days or 1.5 days on the weekends with their parents. Children can misbehave with their parents because they don’t have a relationship with their parents who seldom spend time with them. It could be a cry for attention.