I’ve been at the receiving end for years and whilst I am still here standing, it does not hurt any less. Unfortunately the world is full of women who need to take a dig at other women, laugh at them, put them down, criticise them to fault, anything to make themselves feel better.
There will always be women like this. The more they realise their guilt, the more they participate in fodder till they actually believe their own truth. Would you like to be this kind of woman?
If you have caught yourself translating your strong views that potentially hurts another, ask yourself, is it necessary? We are all entitled to strong views but we do not need to express them like high school girls behind walls just so we can feel superior to the victim. That’s just mean. Truly mean.
I advocate all women to stop the jealousy and upgrade yourselves to become more compassionate, have more empathy and to give others the benefit of doubt. To always look at the bright side of a person because you just haven’t a clue what goes on in someone else’s life.
Your cruel words could potentially cause a suicide. You may think your words are safe but news travels despite how much you trust your friend to keep your bitchy banter. Let’s upgrade ourselves so we live together in harmony, to form a sisterhood so strong that no woman needs to ever feel excluded and victimised.
Beyond the age of 21, we should really mark ourselves internally and project ourselves professionally. If our parents did not teach us good values, be accountable to make it our business to learn it up. If we had a poor lot in life and are angry, know that millions have it far worse than you and that you truly do have a choice what happens going forward in your life versus regressing by victimising your own selves and blocking that abundance that you do so deserve.
It’s a tough concept to chew if you’re used to getting joy from laughing and criticising other women but try it.
Life does get better !!
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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
