Toddler advising Mommy

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Today, I hit my daughter on her shin whilst she was seated at the sofa because she made me so mad. She threw a tantrum when she didn’t get her way and crumpled up a school book. I reminded her that books are to be respected and NOT to treat them like that. She took another school book and crumpled it up AGAIN!!! I cannot stand such defiance and automatically hit her shin and raised my voice threatening her to try doing it again. And she did!!!

*faint*

I really should have sent her straight to the corner but these days I am getting super impatient thus it was an instant reaction. After the second hit (which was harder than the first), she stopped her nonsense and didn’t crumple another book.

But because I felt so bad for hitting her, I offered to hug her immediately after that fiasco and she readilly hugged me back with teary eyes. So I explained to her that I really do love her but I get really mad when she disrespects books.

Much later in the evening, whilst she was eating her dinner, she told me,

“Mommy, you shouldn’t hit children because children are not for hitting.”

My heart dropped and I turned into mush. She couldn’t have been more right. This is just a simple lesson I learnt today from my three year old amongst the many in my three years with her.

Thank you God, for these little but so important lessons.

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3 thoughts on “Toddler advising Mommy

  1. Donch be too hard on yourself.. it’s hard to be a SAHM .. i know so. I get alot of help from PB and keegan.. but yet. .when i am alone with the brat.. i just get readily upset too.. over every little things.

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