The choice of being busy

I always try explaining how busy I am to people but inadvertently get judged in the process. It’s usually when people invite me to go somewhere and I say I can’t and then have to explain why. People love judging instead of understanding. It’s either I am crap at organising my time, or I need to learn how to MAKE time or why do I want to earn so much money anyway?

Firstly, I am not crap at organising my time. If you had what I had on my plate, there is no free time. I just prioritise and do the best I can and any free time I steal out of there goes straight to my kids. I’m sorry I have to be selfish with my time but because I have so little, my kids get top priority. As for money? I want both my kids to be able to have a good education in a good University and as you know, that costs a lot of money. What about old age? What about medical expenses? What about emergencies? All it takes is for me to have something like Cancer and BOOM! I know, my Mom has Cancer…….

I’m not one of those rich kids who gets hand outs nor did I marry an entrepreneur with lots of cash, so yeah, I have to work really hard in order to have a decent life. Plus, I need some security money too! You never know with men!

So I’m really sorry if I cannot spare you my time. Sometimes I can, sometimes I can’t. Just think of the hawker lady who worked from 4am every morning preparing the food for sales for the day. She worked right up to night, then slept. All she did was work so she could afford her children an education abroad. Do you think she even had a chance to attend a birthday party? I don’t think so. Some of us have to work so just quit bugging me!

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
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3 thoughts on “The choice of being busy

  1. you just do what you have to do la.. if you choose to be busy.. be it. heck.. i can’t find time to read the daily papers and ppl ask me .. why ? you only have 1 kid !

  2. love this entry..totally agree with you, some ppl just think that we are so free and can’t understand why we are always busy…and there are many more important things we gotta prioritise 🙂

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