Tee drawing in a Chinese Restaurant in New York

Finally, after four long eventful years, I am taking a stance to get my life back. And although getting pregnant and having a second baby will only turn my whole world upside down again, I feel ready right this second to embrace life and work towards my own betterment. Don’t get me wrong, there was nothing wrong before but I was so busy with Tee that I had lost myself. It is a natural phenomenon that many full time stay at home mothers’ experience. Everything you do, you do for your child so much so that your life revolves around the child and you know nothing else about the world but the child. Isn’t that SCARY???

One day old Tee – hairiest baby in all of Pantai Hospital

After a difficult pregnancy without support (I hadn’t discovered online help then and didn’t have any friends who were pregnant!), followed by an extremely stressful first six months breastfeeding with adults from various childrearing philosophies pressuring me and then to recieve confirmation that I do indeed have a very demanding child; I am now finally at peace. Despite all the hurdles, I am now feeling less stressed and more in control. It has taken THAT long to get to this stage.

Tee at five months – my Mother-in-Law’s Hibiscus was bigger than her whole head. And she already has a big head to begin with!

I have always loved Tee from the moment she was conceived, and then more on the day we met face to face, and then even more when she started to communicate. And let me tell you, despite her defiance, stubbornness and smart-ass chilli padi mouth today, I love her more and more, every. Single. Day. She fills my soul with so much joy, my heart with so much love and my head with so many aches. But what is life then if this little thing didn’t keep me on my toes? Sedentary…..

Tee turning four soon……….

No, I have definitely loved every moment of Tee growing up and look how she’s grown! But now, I want my life back. I want to have time without Tee. To fill the engine that’s been on overtime these past years caring for her. To make something of myself. I owe it to myself. Don’t you think?

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.