Often women come to me asking for help and in the past, I would jump out of my seat to help because why not? I had the means.
During this MCO, I was focused on single moms spending thousands and although I really do not expect anything back, I cannot help feeling that some of these people are just opportunists. It almost makes me the fool again to give someone a free ride when it wasn’t like she was dying. Some of these single moms, they just go around playing their pity card on soft hearted beings and then they continue their entire lives just getting favours over and over. There is no hint in there to get a job or do anything to actually earn money for their children’s future. They really believe that as long as they can continue a sob story, there are enough soft hearted people to go around for their lifetime.
This makes me a little mad. It does. Not so much because I lose money but that I work so hard to get women to see bigger, to do more for themselves, to believe in themselves that they are worthy. Yet the next minute, they go back to their abusive husbands or the drugs or to their twisted belief systems. Arghhh. It makes me feel like screaming!!!
I have now decided that if anyone wanted a freebie from me, it will no longer come for free. I’ve been doing free for far too long like Mother Theresa on Marijuana.
In the next 6 months, I will be focused on scaling a new business to hit another digit and I will be keeping it all for my family.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
