Whilst we are feeling melancholic about the subject, I might as well blurb out my own schpiel about it.
I think I am a GREAT friend.
I am loving, honest, sincere. I make no demands of friends. I am accepting and I don’t impart my own ideas onto anyone. I am sensitive to others believing that everyone is different. I never get jealous of my friends but instead look out for their best interests at all times. I am also not malicious. In fact, I strive to make my friends smile or laugh everyday!
My friends are those who are there when I need them. I don’t have to see them or talk to them everyday but when I need them, they are there. They care about me. Genuinely. And vice versa.
Of course, there are friends to complete your day-to-day life like friends you go shopping with, friends you have tea with, friends you gossip with, friends you gym with and etcetera. I call them ‘purpose’ friends as they are friends with a purpose. These friends may or may not eventually enter your inner circle, the ‘inner-circle’ friends whom you call when you are in jail.
Friends need to enjoy each other’s company. Friends should have no ill feelings towards each other but instead the best of intentions for each other and genuine happiness should the other be lucky enough to get ahead in any way. Friends are forgiving. And I thought friends were forever……
I was wrong.
Friends are not necessarily forever. People change. Just as the wind. And your best friend today may not be your best friend tomorrow. It may not be the fault of anyone. You just grow in different directions. Accept it. And cherish the time that you were allowed to be friends.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.


You sound like a good friend to have. and you’re right: people change and it’s no one’s fault. Better to just move on than to try and force friendship. Life’s too short for that nonsense.
Hi EmilyJane – Thanks for the validation. I needed that. 🙂