Last night, Tee decided suddenly that she really missed her Daddy who is an hour plane ride away. She really, REALLY missed him and started bawling and crying and sobbing and tearing and choking and coughing and wailing……….and looked like she’d just lost both hands and both legs and her mouth as well, because you know, if she didn’t have her mouth, she’d not be able to express herself, the thing she loves most to do. It was like losing her most prized posession.

So after two whole hours of the crying orchestra, she was finally pacified by drawing her Daddy and herself with lots of hearts, writing her name beside Daddy’s name on a small piece of paper which she insisted on sleeping with. With only two hands, she also held onto a rubic cube and her pink baby cow, Camille (pronounced Camy). Of course, in the middle of the night at 3am when she wakes asking for her ‘list’ in pitch darkness, I have no idea what she is referring to, especially not after I’d just drifted into deep sleep.

“The list! Where is my list, Mommy?!”

Thanking God for the logical inference He instilled in me, I managed to deduce that it was the Daddy drawing my little insomniac needed. Phew.

The next morning, she said she wanted to catch a plane to see Daddy. *this is serious*

Mid morning, she told her grandparents that she wanted to go back to KL because here, nobody played with her. Naturally, that broke my in-laws into pieces of China but it wasn’t like they were spending much time with her apart from our meal time banters and some sporadic quality play time. And as soon as she’d voiced her complaint, she’d asked them why they didn’t have any toys to which they replied that they didn’t have a baby. So Tee drew her trump card and explained that they DID now have a baby in the form of herself and thus SHOULD get some toys.

Everything was dropped, and I mean EVERYTHING with a capital E; and plans were made to take Her Royal Highness out to buy toys and eat ice-cream. Suddenly, all was well and Tee no longer needed to catch that plane *you’re only a tool, Daddy*. As much as I wanted to stop this ludicrousity, Tee’s apparent sadness that I’d witnessed earlier made me bite my tongue. I had never seen my Baby so sad……and I don’t know either whether it was some first class acting in manipulation or genuine sorrow.

And I’m supposed to be her Mother.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

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