One of my good friends coined this term for me recently because I seem to attract bitchy women around me. Seriously!!! I admit I can be the biggest bitch. I can!!! But I am never a bitch unless very provoked. I have a lot of tolerance and I have lived enough to not let silly little petty things get to me. Jealousy is something I have had to deal with since the age of 7 and it has been a life long journey dealing with it. My mom too. I don’t understand why people get jealous and for some reason, they always take a hit at me. I have a funny feeling that my 11 year old daughter, T1, will also go through what my Mom and I have gone through. She is already seeing signs of bitchy peers in the classroom. She is the youngest and she is intelligent and talented. More importantly, she is kind. Extremely kind and polite and has all the qualities that many Moms dream off. She can be bitchy too! It’s all in the genes what can I say?

However, what demarcates us from the real bitches is that we do not go out intentionally to hurt anyone. Really. We are way too busy for that. But as we go along our day to day business, and especially when we get more and more successful and popular, all these horrid worms start creeping out of the woodwork, I swear! And they leave their bloody droppings everywhere!!! Revolting.

Although I have retired, my days are now filled with one drama after another. Life gets exciting yo! I spoke to my mentors and friends and they all agree that it is what it is. Even a famous financial coach once told me 2 years ago that everyone is jealous of me because of these reasons and she names them all. Speaking of which, my housekeeper today couldn’t believe what an amazing husband I have. She must think I am so spoilt. And I felt like telling her I am the Queen, it is expected!! If my late Mom were still around, she would kick my ass so hard till her foot got stuck in my butt cheek.

Today’s drama was that I was accused by this very famous group for approaching their Facebook members into my own Facebook groups. Err…..I was lost. I had absolutely NO CLUE what they were going on about. First of all, I have retired for some time now. I do not go around hunting and sourcing for people to add into my groups. I don’t!!! It has never even crossed my mind to do such a thing. Yet, that is what I was accused of doing. I offered for them to get into all my groups and take out all their people and that is how much I care about people being in my groups. Stop comparing me to other Facebook group owners. I am my own and I add value to my group members. I don’t have groups to sell things so I can make money and if I did, I would do it openly with absolutely nothing to hide. I did get pissed off. Firstly because it was rather presumptuous. Secondly, I was insulted. And thirdly, without hesitation, I wanted all these people out of my life. I do not have time for such petty dramas. Wait till I tell you about the dramas that have been going on behind the scenes with another group of women! So embarrassing, women. Stop it and raise your standard for goodness sake. Stop making it all suck for the sisterhood of womankind.

Oh, and recently on FACEBOOK (ALL drama happens on Facebook these days!), a new group got formed by moving over 12,000 members from one group to another and guess what? They blocked me! I completely respect that you do not want me to sell anything in your group but am I seriously such a threat? I am not even looking for any sales. And I am more than happy to contribute RM 10,000 to your purpose.

One of the reasons I am hated is because I am vocal. Not everyone agrees with me. To each his own. Yet I have been blessed with the most wonderful beings in my life. Truly, madly, deeply. I have been blessed with women who would carry me with their strong arms and golden hearts, who selflessly contribute their brain power in unlimited quantities if there ever was a measure, and yeah…..I am just grateful beyond grateful. I ask myself how come such Angels enter my life and I don’t have an answer. Could it be that my late Mom sends them? I don’t need them as I am incredibly self sufficient yet there are so many of them and I am incredibly grateful. They truly take very good care of me. To which I close my eyes and my heart sings thank you, thank you, thank you and thank you, to these strong, real, solidly good women.

And to those of you fake smiley witches? I am still praying for you.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.