The dictionary defines a hypocrite as a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives. This means, that lady A could be bitching about you behind your back saying how immature you are or how large your ass is or how badly you cane your children ladidadida……and then when she is in front of you, the tables turn. Your ass? It isn’t big at all! Oh, everybody canes their children at some point or other (not). Oh, if we weren’t immature sometimes, we’d be boring! Get the drill?

Sure, we all want to be nice. And we all should be nice. But is it really necessary to bitch about someone behind their backs? My Mama always told me that if you wanted to bitch about someone (and just to define how I’m using the word bitch, to bitch is to say anything with negative connotations), then you’d better be prepared to bitch about that person to their face.

So yes, I DO bitch.

A LOT!

But I also have the balls to stick it up your face and back up my opinions. Perhaps I may not be so bold as to bring up the issues unnecessarily but should you ask if I thought your ass was big? I would say yes. If I thought you might commit suicide over that remark, I might soften the blow and say yes, your ass is big, but lots of men like big asses! Get me?

Where does one draw the line of hypocrisy??? I think many women are hypocrites, without offense.

I guess T1 has a new lesson for tomorrow. Today, she learnt that if a friend could not decide if she wanted to be friends or not, then she was definitely not a friend. I shared with her how some friends only wanted to be friends with you because you are popular or whatever, but a true friend will always be your friend, whether you are the emcee or not. A true friend always looks after your very best interest and expects nothing back.

So, do you know any hypocrites? COME ON, LET IT OUT. I want to hear it!!!

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.