Gosh, don’t we all have them?! Let’s see, if I were to list some of the hang ups I have, what would they be?

*thinking*

*thinking more*

*thinking even more*

For the purpose of definition, a hang up is something that prevents you from being a better person. A psychological or emotional difficulty or inhibition.

So perhaps it is my fear of my children having bad manners that will reflect on me being a bad mother? Or the fear that people realise that I am really not that smart? Certainly my fear of being fat forever!

When I was in my teens, my dad had forced me to attend a leadership life development course that spanned a week and cost a lot of money. He obviously thought I could benefit from it but at the risk of being obnoxious, the one thing I got from it was that there were so many people in this world who had much more hang ups than I even knew existed!

Most of the participants were Malaysian and mostly older. I was a teenager after all, and these were people past married life and kids. I thought the course was a farce and a waste of time but I could certainly see how it had helped many people. It was life changing for them. But these were things I was already practising in my day to day life!

I have just been reminded again this week just how screwed up people can be for whatever reason and it pains me so. These are people who are the victims of society, the crippled, the complainers, the large egos, the ruthless ones, the insecure…….this week alone, I have had to deal with FIVE separate incidences (from 5 different women) of this shit. I’m too old for this.

If only I could break down their personalities, analyse their behaviour and give you some good old gossip. But that would be rude. So I tell myself, to be patient with them and let them learn at their own pace. Sometimes, you cannot force others to see what they refuse to see. Even if the obvious is smashing into their faces time and time again.

Thank you, Mom, for making me what I am and not one of them.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.