Tee (3.5 months old) and Nana (2004) – JUST LOOK AT HER HAIR!!!

You have no idea how much psychology is needed in convincing a hairy baby that she is just as beautiful as all those bald little children over there. Honestly, if you’ve had a hairy child, you’d know how insecure they’d get every time someone goes, “WOW!!! She’s hairy, isn’t she???!!!” and starts rubbing their hands over her arm.

Tee is a lot more confident with her hairiness these days but boy, have I worked hard at it’s not how you look that matters, it’s who you are that does…..

It is extremely important for kids of our generation to learn that. Even at this age, Tee comes home saying her thighs are too fat. Apparently, her skinny school friend teases her about her thighs. I’ve had to counteract that too. And who do all these mean children learn from? Their parents, of course! It’s a vicious cycle. Girl who teases Tee about having fat thighs wouldn’t have teased her if she hadn’t heard someone at home talking negatively about fat thighs.

It is of utmost importance that we, as parents, and as much as we hate our own thighs, to be extremely sensitive when it comes to our children. Especially our girls. Anorexia and bulimia are fast becoming rampant (although way far unreported) and the slightest feelings of insecurity may send your girls right down that path.

I personally know of at least 10 people who were or still is anorexic or bulimic and the only reason I know, is because they trusted me enough to tell me. Look around you. The healthiest looking, most successful woman that you have so much respect for could very well be bulimic. Nobody knows……but she is.

I urge you, parents, to be more sensitive towards your child’s upbringing. Love them for who they are, not what they look like. I truly love my girls, warts and all.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.