Practising carrying my baby

That’s what I’ve been doing all day. BECAUSE!!!!!!!!! CLM left last night but MIL is in town so I’m just getting ready. Getting ready to paint the town pink with T2, ready to meet all our friends, ready to jet set to all the places Mommy wants to haunt, ready to EATTTTTTTT………..what the hell I want to eat!!!!!!

The moment MIL steps onto her plane back to Kota Bharu, I’m off. With wings.

Unfortunately, I have never used a baby sling even though I now have 4 slings and 3 upright baby carriers. Tee was carried in a baby bjorn but T2 is still too small for a baby bjorn so I’ll need to master the art of wearing the sling. I tried it a few times today but she cried. I’ve youtubed it now and can’t wait to try again but MIL refuses to let me touch the baby because she is asleep. Whose baby is this anyway?

When CLM came, she came to do us a favour as she is a relative. But now that the baby is a month old, we have put aside some money for her ang pow. How much shall we give her? The Hubs says RM3,800 but I think that’s too much because she hardly did much (to me anyway). She cooked for me and the family (or rather instructed my helper most of the time), which is a plus point, because she fed me really well. I have sufficient milk for the baby and I owe it to her cooking. She did not take care of the baby at all during the night, which I hear CLM’s are supposed to do? She cleaned the diaper half the time during the day (I cleaned it the other half of the day) and rocked and carried the baby everyday to sleep. Oh, and she bathed the baby once every 2-3 days because it was always too cold. That is the extent of her work here. So what do you think she is worth? I hear the market rate is RM3,000 to RM4,000 – care to share?

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5 thoughts on “Practising carrying my baby

  1. Hi, i paid RM3,000 only last September. My CL only cooked for me, washed mine and baby’s clothes and at night she slept with baby. Diaper changing was done by her 70-80% of the time. She bathed baby in the morn and wiped his body in the evening.

  2. I don’t know about the rates….but I was curious about your outcome in baby carrying. Intend to baby carry for my 2nd child later and it will be my first time doing so.

    Any tips on which to buy and how you managed?

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