When I was a student in London, I’d travel in and out of the UK perhaps up to five times a year – trip home to KL, architectural school visit, trip to Italy (to visit ex-boyfriend’s family), and a holiday here and there if funds permitted. All throughout my seven years there, I had never encountered a problem with the British Immigration. It was almost like I was born there.
Until one fine day. When I got a bitch of a blond immigration officer.
She asked me how much money I had on me and I told her I had 40 sterling pounds (too little). She asked me what I was doing in the UK and I told her I was working as an architect’s assistant (There was no work visa stamped on my passport but as an architectural student, I didn’t need one – the lady just didn’t know the rules. Architectural students are allowed to work without a work visa in the UK for two years). She wanted to see some evidence of that and I had none.
STAMP. CHOP. SIGN. She made me follow a security guard into an isolated room.
The bitch had denied my entry into the UK despite the fact that I was legally allowed to be there. The least she could have done was to make a phone call, get a fax, check with her colleagues, whatever. But no. She just blackmarked my passport. And sent me to hell.
The first thing they did was to tear my luggage apart. Then they searched me and eventually slit opened a few packets of Indo Mee that I had brought along with me. After a gruelling hour’s long interview with a few good men, I was thrown into a room full of ‘real‘ crime practitioners. They were Nigerian con men, illegal workers from China and more illegal workers from China, in search of a better life. We were fed a miserable dry sandwich as our meal. And treated a million times worse than plebs. Actually, make that animals. They were animal abusers.
I begged and hollered. I did not want to take a 14 hour plane back to where I’d just come from! This was ridiculous!!! They couldn’t care less. There was a payphone in the room but they wouldn’t offer any change. The only calls I could make were ALL collect. And I had to fight amongst the other illegal immigrants for that one payphone. Thankfully, a dearest friend in London, was efficient and smart enough to get in touch with my University and my employers, who immediately faxed over the necessary documents. The Malaysian Consulate couldn’t help. My parents hadn’t a clue what to do. Alas, because my passport had already been blackmarked with that blasted stamp, I had to leave the country no matter what.
I suggested that I leave to Italy (which was a lot closer) instead of Malaysia, to which they agreed (for once, and to my surprise). I quickly purchased an airline ticket excitedly with my inherited bodyguards and then anxiously waited and waited and waited till it was time to get the fuck out of that room. I made arrangements with my then boyfriend (who was in Italy) and his family, to pick me up at such a time. Bear in mind there were no handphones then.
When it was time to board the Alitalia plane, my sense of relief exalted and I hurriedly knocked on the doors of the immigration officers. It was exactly 8.10pm London time. Nothing.
I knocked harder. And more furiously. They still completely ignored me.
I began thrashing the door when they finally came out to escort me to my plane at 8.30pm. But hey guess what? They’d made me miss my 8.45pm plane. On purpose.
I was fuming mad. I was reaking with hatred and disgust, for the unfairness of it all. There was no way I could contact my then boyfriend as they were already at the airport in Milan. I never thought it possible to feel so much anger but that was probably the most outraged time I’d ever experienced in my entire life. I yelled at them to the point where they’d ensured all their immigration officers knew of the rule for foreign architectural students being allowed to work in the UK without a proper work permit.
They had gotten their way, which was to send me back to where I’d come from and that was my 24 hours in hell.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
