Attracting the man you like is easy if you know how. First and foremost, please make sure he is available. Don’t go around breaking up marriages. But if he’s only boyfriend-girlfriend with someone else, hmmm……I still wouldn’t mess because it’s just not nice. If it is meant to be, it will be, know what I mean? Would you like it if you were dating a man and someone else kept calling him to tempt him? It’s just messy. If anything like that happened to me and my man (married or not), I would expect the man to delete the girl from his life. Delete number, delete contact, delete any form of communications, delete forever. If the man can not do that for me, he is out. No man is worth it if he cannot do that for you, ladies.
Not even if the girl is “JUST A FRIEND.”
I am ruthless like that. I have high self-esteem and am worthy so if you love me, put your actions and money where it’s worth. Period.
So let’s say the man is available. What next? Well, it depends on how well you already know him? Is he a friend? Is he a mutual friend that you’ve just met? Is he a stranger? Is he a blind date?
My first advise is to be yourself and be confident and NOT show that you fancy him at all. Men like the thrill of the chase and the harder it is to get you, the more they want you and the harder they will work to keep you. Serious!!! If you give in too easy, they also give up more easily.
So. You need to be a little sharp with your observation skills to learn up as much as possible about him.
1. Watch his shoes. Are they clean and neat? Or scruffy and dirty?
2. Watch his attentiveness to you. Does he check his phone every now and then? Or do you have his 500% attention?
3. Watch what he says about his Mother and the rest of his family. Men who glorify their Moms are Mommy’s boys.
4. Watch how he treats the waiters. Is he polite? Does he care?
5. Watch what he says about his career and life goals. Are they in tune with yours? There is no point pursuing this any further if he is dead set against children and you love children. DON’T expect a man to change. Although some men do change, they are few and far between and require a lot of work.
Assuming they pass all 5 questions above, you need to learn how to play the string of pull and release in the right amounts.
1. Stay mysterious, don’t tell him your whole life story all in one date!!! Only answer the questions that he asks you.
2. Don’t tell him much about your past boyfriends. Leave it open and vague. Men really don’t want to know.
3. Don’t tell him your personal stuff. Leave that for much later. He can tell you his personal stuff but not you. Talk about traveling, your career, hobbies, whatever but keep it light and/but interesting.
4. Bring him food. Find out what he likes to eat. Cook for him. Food always works 😉
5. Be presentable and clean with a little sexy/sensuous touch. Email me for more details 😉 I offer grooming advice too.
Come back for PART TWO later………….I have to go sleep now.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
