Before I was a Mom……..

I never in my wildest dreams thought I would end up a stay at home Mom. No bloody way in hell. And then look what happened.

Before I was a Mom, it was all about me. I always thought it would always be all about me, but now, it’s all about THEM!!!

Before I was a Mom, I was SLIM. Slim enough to strut confidently in a bikini on a public beach. Slim enough to fit into size 10 UK. Slim enough to wear hot pants and knee high boots. Bah.

Before I was a Mom, I was less compassionate, less patient, less kind. I guess being a Mom is a good thing. Yes?

Before I was a Mom, I lived life to the fullest. I’m still living life as full as I possibly can with what little time I have!

Before I was a Mom, I used to entertain guests a plenty. I loved cooking and I cooked a hell of a lot more than I do now. My poor, poor kids…..Mommy will change.

Before I was a Mom, I spent much more time with books than the internet. Now, it’s reversed, though I’d like to strike a good balance one day soon.

Before I was a Mom, I knew nothing about children nor raising children. I’ve come a long way……

Before I was a Mom, I earned a good income. I’d imagined that becoming a Mom (a stay at home one at that!) would put my career into cold storage, but how wrong I was. Being a Mom actually makes you more employable. If you can sort your kids out to a pat, you can manage a corporation to success. Fact.

Before I was a Mom, I found it hard to make friends. Now I am surrounded by so many! Thank you, all!

Before I was a Mom, I hardly slept because sleeping was a waste of time. Nothing has changed, it seems…..although I’m helluva lot more tired now! This thing called age…. *grumble-grumble*

Before I was a Mom, I could spend whichever direction I liked. Now, I have to think of the kids and their very expensive education in the UK *gulp* – it’s not like we’re heirs to a fortune, ya’ know, like many people in KL whom I know!

Before I was a Mom, I never knew I could love so deeply. I knew I could love and had a lot of love to offer, but nothing like now. Now, the Hubs keeps moaning about how much I spend on loving other people outside of our little family!

Before I was a Mom, I never imagined that spending hours just staring at my sleeping children could bring endless joy. Endless. So fulfilling. Complete. Perfection. Until the next day arrives and everything changes.

Before I was a Mom, I had a lot more sex!

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.

She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.

Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.

Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
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6 thoughts on “Before I was a Mom……..

  1. Your final statement got me in stitches!!!!!!!
    Being a mum is like marriage – for better and for worse, although most of the times, it is for the worst!

  2. it’s true, most of the points that you brought up on before I was a mom is applicable to me too.

    didn’t know that, motherhood, change one individual a lot.

    I wonder, does fatherhood, change one individual, too?

  3. lol…i can count how many times we hv sex since i gv birth to my no5! one hand more than enuf. hehehe.

  4. i had wanted to say….
    bf i was a mom, i was much slimmer too but dunno why motherhood made me love food so much 🙁

  5. Sex? what’s that? The only reason I’m not going there as often is because sex could lead you to big big (and expensive) trouble.

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