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I’ve been super busy still. Juggling Tee and my own work deadlines, housework, cooking and laundry…..it really is no picnic. I visited a newborn baby today and felt real clucky after. Tomorrow I am having guests. Saturday, my cousin arrives for a whole week and stays with me. Then we have two house viewings in the afternoon and dinner after, and then a drive to KLIA.
It seems that the calendar is on a perpetual all time full and there are just not enough hours in a day to complete all tasks.
So in the midst of all this busyness, I baked some chocolate brownies today – cut out a whole load of sugar and they were perfect. I needed something therapeutic to do to calm the internal chaos and Tee was pleading for it. We wrapped them as little gifts with ribbons so Tee could feed her school friends tomorrow. And because I do this, I am labelled as the Goddess of Domesticity……
Women talk behind my back about how ‘perfect’ I am. They use the word ‘perfect’ in many forms but ultimately to suggest that I do so much for Tee, sometimes too much. But who’s to say? Do I have to apologise for my ‘perfection’? I am certainly not perfect. Far from it. It just so happens that I love doing certain things and just because they don’t do it, why knock me? I don’t judge them?! Furthermore, I can’t help it if Tee is ahead of everyone in class. It’s not like I spend my time drilling her at home with academics. Puhleeze, I’m busy enough as it is. She just happens to be a bright kid. It’s genetic. Live with it. I’m not jealous of my friends with super-smart kids, super fat wallets, super hot bodies, super gorgeous faces or super happy happiness?! So please just leave me alone…….
And then there is the issue of what I know and who I know. Sometimes, it is just easier when you have a wallflower as a child, don’t know anything and don’t know anyone. Because women love to talk. As it is, Tee is, dare I say, the most popular girl in class and many of her friends want to come to her house to play with her. I would love entertaining everyone but I have chores to do and work to complete. And on that one day if I had one friend over, then some feel a slide. Why does it have to be that way? Why can’t we just have more positive women in the world?
I need to stay away from negativity. I do. I do!
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett degree in Architecture. She then spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this blog of over 15 years thereafter returning to the Corporate World stronger than ever as the Country Director of a British Multinational. She sets out to prove to all, that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past but has grown not one but TWO network marketing businesses in the notorious MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, achieving success in under 2 years. She believes in the MLM business model but realises the DRASTIC PITFALLS and great stigma attached to it, understanding EXACTLY WHY the majority would shy away (or RUN for their lives) from ANY MLM business. But open your eyes and take time to understand it intellectually, remove your hang-ups, confirm your research, and you may just want to seize an opportunity. She did. And no, she never went about chasing people for sales. She had a sophisticated system work for her through technology and a smartphone.
She now impacts lives authentically with proven strategies amassed through the last decade of her own transformation offering online coaching programmes and always supports the underprivileged. She believes that we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn some tools to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave enough to make contact as her life's purpose is to build people. She operates through a discovery call after which she will commit to helping you. Or not.
Most lose out on an opportunity because they are afraid they would be sold to, conned or whatever fear resides in their brain without even trying. And that's on them.
Mamapumpkin is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything, and she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, and supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.


Women are just like that. You can’t win. Just go about your business and don’t even think about these haters.
action betul, u. hahaha
yup…just ignore these EFNTD women. Just continue doing what you love to do 😀
You need more brownies in your system…here, have some of mine! LOL!
Ah…these people are just plain jealous. Kiasu nature mah. Don’t care lar.
Tee is adorable and she’s smart and brilliant..and I’m so jealous too! But in a good way lar. 🙂
Don’t get yourself overstressed because of some ‘see lai’ who has nothing better to do at home.
So true! Why cant these women be happy?!
I can see why these “see lai” talk behind your back. They must be so jealous. From what I read from your blogs, you sound like such a well rounded, intelligent, sassy and chic lady. Furthermore, you are blessed with such a beautiful smart little girl. These ” see lai” must feel so inferior when they are with you. Hey…it is a dirty job having to be a smart, sassy lady with beautiful child….but someone gotta do it. So to those hate mongers…nah nah nah!!!!
apala…8 por! dun care la..